“This Majestic Life”:
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To The High-Achiever, I See You

To The High-Achiever, I See You

Jun 21, 2023 | Coaching, Self Expression

I see you. You are sharing your best parts. Helping, caring, doing.


You are ablaze in your life, your career, your business. It is successful. It is life-giving for so many.


But you are not an IT. Your mantra may just be “Pressure makes Diamonds” and yet there is a crack. 

So where do you let yourself be?

When do you let yourself be?

How do you let yourself be?


Or are you only allowing yourself to do? And if so, do you know why?


May you let your belly breathe deep. Consider lessening your grip.

Imagine what you can create from ease, energy, excitement and embodiment. No need for pressure, perfection, performance nor proving.


A simple exercise to do so:

Let yourself truly fall into the always present, centering into the here and now.  Feet on the floor, toes spread. Even better go out to the land and let your bare feet touch the earth. One hand on your heart, the other on your belly. Ask yourself what needs to be shed? What needs to be refined? Trust that something will immediately come to your awareness. Notice where in your body you feel this. 

Now let yourself imagine all of your potential with that spaciousness. Feel the impulse of change and action afoot. Your heart will quicken. Your mind will create excuses. This is a long list, it’s got everything AND the kitchen sink in there. 

“There is not time.  Not now.”

 Maybe not ever. 

Let the list come. Yet you do not to heed it all. Let your animal body want what it wants. As the wise Mary Oliver sings directly into our hearts, “You only have to let the soft animal of your body love what it loves.”


May you find the majesty,



P.S. If you would like support in accessing this presence and the this ability to joyfully share your vision of a life with room to breathe, while serving others and creating heartfelt success in all of your life and business ventures, join me in my master class series starting on Thursday, June 29, 2023 at 12 PM EDT.

“The VIA Masterclasses for Big-Hearted, High-Achieving Helping Professionals: What Vulnerability, Intimacy and Audacity Have To Do With Avoiding Burnout and Creating the Lifestyle and Business You ACTUALLY WANT.”

I created this class because I have big visions to help more and more big-hearted, high-achieving helping professionals access their vitality and creativity while making earth-shaking change. One way I can do that is to share from my own experience how these values were invaluable in blazing my own trail. And to be honest, I made it a little harder than it needed to be.


To truly touch this experience, a level of vulnerability and intimacy with yourself is necessary to declare your desires and the audacity to go after this vision. Not from the standard path, not from what is always acceptable, safe and perfect, but from an embodied knowing—your very birthright. Join me as we forge a community of visionary helpers. 

More logistical details below:

The masterclass will be hosted on a free Facebook Group: The Pearl-Becoming the Gem. 

Join for more prompts to support you on your journey. Videos of the masterclass without support will be available on youtube, please fill out a contact form request on my website here to have access to the videos. The videos will be able to be replayed for up to one week from airing. 


Week 1: Vulnerability-How Vulnerability Fast Tracks Your Vision on Thursday, June 29, 2023 at 12 pm EDT. 

Week 2: Intimacy-An Invaluable Intelligence on Thursday, July 6, 2023 at 12 pm EDT.

Week 3: Audacity-Awaken to Astonishment  on Thursday, July 13, 2023 at 12 pm EDT.


BONUS: In my love of play, I AM GOING TO CREATE A RAFFLE TO GIFT A “BIZ OR PERSONAL ASSESSMENT” TO THE WINNER OF “MOST ENGAGED” in sharing my masterclass. Details to follow on my social media channels: Facebook and Linked In




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